1. If you bump into friends at a cafe, don't assume you can sit down to join them because you don't know if delicate matters are being discussed.2. Food halls are great because there's no need to split the bill.3. Yes, there are too many art openings every other week. If you can't make it to both your friends' openings, go to one and send apologies to the other.4. Be kind to your body. Exercise everyday as if it is a way of life and not a punishment for drinking too many beers the night before.5. If your studio is at home, go for a walk before starting work. When you return, it will be as if it's someone else's house and you won't feel the need to do the dishes when you should be working.6. Walks are great because you can also relax your eyes by looking at far off distances.7. Walks are also great because you can hear the birds. Why listen to an iPod?
This advice was dished out by Julian to a night class I attended, so they are not his exact words. I've only jotted them down in my own voice so I won't forget.
Julian's favourite things were read out by his brother at the funeral. Everyone laughed at "unexpected upgrades" but I had heard "unexpected upbraids"!
Rest in peace, Julian Dashper, 1960 - 2009.